1 Do not berate an elder man, but encourage him like a father; younger-men like brethren;
2 elder women like mothers; younger women like sisters, in all purity.
3 Honor widows who are really widows. {There is no good English wording here for 5:4 and 5:8. Family are to take care of family.}
4 But if any widow has children or grandchildren, let° them learn first to be devout to their own household and to repay reimbursements to their parents, for$ this is acceptable in God’s sight.
5 But honor the one who really is a widow and has been left alone and has hoped upon God and remains in supplications and prayers night and day.
6 But she who is self-indulgent has died, while still living.
7 Also command these things in-order-that they may be unimpeachable.
8 But if anyone is not planning-for his own and especially the ones of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbelieving person.
9 Do not let a widow be enrolled who is less-than sixty years old, who had become the wife of one man,
10 being testified of in good works; if she reared children, if she was hospitable to strangers, if she washed the holy-ones’ feet, if she relieved those being afflicted, if she followed after every good work.
11 But renounce younger widows, for$ whenever they are promiscuous against the Christ, they wish to marry,
12 and have condemnation, because they rejected their first faith.
13 Now at the same-time, they also are learning to be idle, strolling the houses, and not only idle, but also gossips and busybodies, speaking things which it is not essential for anyone.
14 Therefore, I will the younger widows to marry, to be childbearing, to manage the house, to not give a starting-point to the one who lays in opposition to them because of reviling;
15 for$ some have already turned themselves aside after the Adversary.
16 If any believing man or believing woman has relatives who are widows, let this one relieve them and do not let the congregation$ be burdened, in-order-that it may relieve the widows who really are widows.
17 The elders who are governing well, let° them be deemed worthy of double honor, especially the ones laboring in word and in teaching.
18 For$ the Scripture says, ‘You will not muzzle a threshing bull.’ {Deu 25:4} And, ‘The worker is worthy of his wages.’ {Lev 19:13}
19 Do not accept an accusation against an elder {Or: elderly man} , unless upon the testimony of two or three witnesses.
20 Reprove the ones sinning in the sight of all in-order-that the rest may also have fear.
21 I am thoroughly testifying in sight of God and the Lord Jesus Christ and the chosen messengers in-order-that you should observe these things without prejudice, doing$ nothing according-to bias.
22 Lay hands upon no one quickly, nor share in another’s sins. Keep yourself pure!
23 No longer be a drinker of water only, but use a small amount of wine because of your stomach and your frequent sicknesses.
24 Some men’s sins are evident, leading them into judgment, but even for some, they are also following after them later.
25 Likewise$ also, the good works are evident, and the ones who have works contrariwise are not able to be hidden.